Vodka, oil, weapons and… Russian women – these are the objects of Russian national pride. I wonder if there is any other country in this world where its women are considered the national objects of value?
Every country gives its special colour/flavour to its citizens, due to the geographical, historical, cultural or many other reasons. Thus, I personally consider the women of every country a special object of value, kind of priceless commodity, the treasure.
So what is there the about Russian women?
Face: Russian women are beautiful (at least this is what they hear all the time), they are aware of their beauty, they like to make themselves beautiful and they enjoy being beautiful. “Beauty will save the world” – is one of the most favorite Russian quotes apparently by F.Dostoevski.
The secret of that special beauty lays in quite a wild mixture of the East and West. It is not only that throughout the last 2000 years all kind of folks have been living in or invading Russia (Proto-Indo-European, Early East Slavs, Mongol invasion, Germans, Scandinavians and others) , even today there are over 100 official nationalities living there with 27 languages being co-official. Russia is being the true melting pot since centuries and therefore the results – pretty mixtures of eastern and western features: high cheek bones (which is worldwide one of the beauty-signs), round face, certain softness of features, fair skin, green/blue/grey eyes and mostly dark-blond or dark brown hair.
Figure: most of the Russian women have the so-called “pear” or “sand-clock” figure which is a sign of the high level of female hormone Estrogen. That makes them look feminine and – naturally – appealing for men. In the western countries it is often the “apple” figure that is typical for women and shows the higher level of the male hormone testosterone.
Colours: although being often accused by their western neighbours of wearing “kitch” Russians do love colourful clothes and fabrics. The passion for colours, gold, silver and precious stone es must be inherited from the Asians and probably will be never understood by the Westerners 🙂 Another thing that Russian women love and what Westerners again will never understand is the fur coats. The simple reason for that is the weather conditions in most of Russia – the winter cold is such that no down coat will help to get warm enough. Nice post about it here (great blog by the way but really an exception in understanding the mysterious soul of a Russian woman!).
Russian women have the bearing power. They can bear a lot. They bear the stupid and horrible drinking of their men – the drinking these men are so proud of. They bear the men who beat them, because when these men are drunk they want to beat… They bear all that for a long, long time. Many – for their lifetimes. But many want another destiny. They want a western foreign husband who will take care of them. No wonder that agencies or dating websites dealing with Russian brides are blossoming since last 10 years.
Russia is a feminine country according to the science of Intercultural Communication. Masculinity vs. femininity – refers to the value placed on traditionally male or female values (as understood in most Western cultures). So called ‘masculine’ cultures value competitiveness, assertiveness, ambition, and the accumulation of wealth and material possessions, whereas feminine cultures place more value on relationships and quality of life. That explains a lot why Russians, especially Russian women are very caring and supportive, gentle and motherly. I guess it is something – alongside with the feminine beauty – that makes them especially attractive for the Western men.
Russian women are strong. In every sense of this word. The most quoted and favoured description of a true Russian woman: Would enter a house on fire, / Would hold up a galloping horse (A famous verse by Nekrasov, 1821-1877, “There Are Countrywomen in Russia…” ).They are strong in bearing things, in forgiving, in struggling for their and their familie´s survival, in keeping themselves beautiful despite the worst life conditions. But above all – they are strong in showing their weakness, especially in relationship to their men. Russian women are very powerful at one situation and weak at another. They simply apply this exchanging play according to the situation.
Apart from being beautiful and strong, Russian women are very well-educated and hard-working. Literacy and education levels among the Russian population (142 million in 2005) are relatively high, largely because the Soviet system placed great emphasis on education. Some 92 percent of the Russian people have completed at least secondary school, and 15 % have completed some form of higher education (university and above).Women make up more than half the work force. In fact, Russian women have never really fight ed for their emancipation – it has always been clear to the rulers that women are the power, and women have been given many rights their western sisters would dream about for decades.
All these wonderful features listed above would be rather useless without the one which I personally value as the highest human quality – the spirituality.
Russian spirituality is different from the Indian or the Western one. Thanks to the ban on religion in the Soviet times people got free from the ritualism of the typical religious societies. In the absence of the church/temple/mosque people had to seek God in their heart.
What you will probably miss in the Russian woman is the joy, the fun, the hot-blooded passion.
What you will find is the certain sadness, mystery, deep love and compassion, tenderness and dedication.
And “the Russian” eyes – open, candid and a bit melancholic.
The eyes, reflecting the everlasting struggle between the Western mind and the Asian soul.